Sunday, March 2, 2008

Good nights, bad nights

You always hear from current parents that no matter what you do, just expect some good nights and bad nights. And on the bad nights, just push through it and move on. Well, we had a particularly bad night that I just had to share with everyone.

3:00 to 7:00PM - Family nap. Big mistake.

10:30 to 11:00PM - Mon starts last feeding before going to bed. Diaper change. Mon puts him down to bed.

11:00PM to 12:30AM - He sleeps. Woohoo! Mon can't fall asleep so she reads her book.

12:30AM to 1:30AM - Roshan cries, Mon feeds him, Mon puts him down to bed. 15 minutes later, start it all over again. Repeat 4 times total. Throw in a diaper change at some point in there.

1:30AM to 3:00AM - Roshan sleeps. Mon is now totally awake. Can't fall asleep. Surfs the web.

3:00AM to 3:15AM - Mon finally gets tired, just about to go to bed...

3:15AM to 5:00AM - Roshan awakes. Diaper change. Feed for 40 minutes. Roshan falls asleep for...approx 3 min. He is now fully awake and in full play mode. Mon tries everything to put him back to sleep: swaddling, singing a song, sleeping in our bed. Nothing. Yes, this continues for a full hour.

5:00AM to 5:30AM - Duties transition to Rishi. First duty is to change dooty diaper (a ten on the twelve point scale). As I am about to put on the new diaper, Roshan decides to pee all over himself. Sigh. We do a full change. Roshan still fully awake. I bring in the swing to our room to calm him down.

6:00AM to 6:30AM - Success! He falls asleep in a matter of minutes. Woohoo!

6:30AM to 8:30AM - Failure! He wakes up again. But at least he is sleepy, so I bring him into bed. He finally falls asleep...but ten minutes later he wakes himself up from the congestion (he is recovering from a cold). I pat him until he calms down. Repeat every 10 minutes for the full two hours.

Family wakes up...with everyone a little cranky. Welcome to parenthood.

So don't let the peaceful sleeping pictures fool you...

3 comments:

AV said...

wow. i may have to bring you both coffee to keep awake and cold packs to ward off lack-of-sleep headaches. what a rough night.

Anita said...

Living overseas it turns out I am the beneficiary of your sleepless nights! Had a nice chat with Monica in the middle of your night =)

Nick said...

For the peeing, I recommend leaving a small baby-wipe covering the family jewels while you clean up the business-end.
Not 100% perfect as the jewels will need a clean too; at which point you are at risk.
Cleaning the jewels first helps though, as there is usually a delay before the cold-air-on-the-jewels-gotta-pee reflex kicks in.
Alternatively, just grab the little fella by his little fella as soon as there is any flow - then point it at the dirty daiper and let that absorb the lot. (Disclaimer: that plan requires razor-sharp reflexes and is probably illegal in some states.)